For a number of years I’ve followed a blog called 4th
Avenue Blues, written by Jonathon aka Andrew. I’ve read about his problems with
his father, his interesting relationship with his mother and the women he at
one point or another had in his life.
I’ve never judged him, many times when I saw discrepancies
in his story I did not bother to question his honesty, because I felt bad for
the mental illness he suffered from.
Over the years readers have noticed lies, holes in stories,
but let it be. For a long time he has complained about The Homeless guy Kevin,
his antics and ways of getting money. I did not judge Andrew nor his opinion,
he always said it was unfair of Kevin to monitor what people could post on his
blog. Andrew, who always pretended to welcome all opinions, has done exactly
what Kevin did. He monitors comments now, and unless they are positive he will
not let them get through.
There are people that are pissed off buy this, and by
Andrew’s lies. Yes, lies.
Remember the lovely red head Andrew met on a dating website
for mentally ill people? The one whose father supported her while she went to
college? The one that Andre’s family and Charlie just loved? You see ladies and gentleman, Andrew did not
have a relationship with Lori, and in fact Lori does not even exist! Lori is a
fake, figment of Andrew’s imagination.
Lori is in fact a woman named Heather, whom Andrew met on a
gaming site years ago, and has since stalked online. Andrew and Heather are not
friends, not on facebook and they had not kept in touch after meeting on a
gaming site many years ago. Jonathon aka
Andrew has stalked Heather’s photbucket and facebook page, pulling her pictures
from both sites and posting them on his blog, claiming this was the woman named
Lori whom he was now dating and falling for.
As it turns out, a few smart people did an image search and
actually found out the truth about Lori or Heather. When Andrew was confronted
with this he made his blog invite only, and continued with the charade and
lies. He did not care that he had labelled poor Heather with mental illness, he
did not care how this could affect Heather’s career or her relationship. All he
cares about was the comments he would receive on his blog.
People were happy Andrew had met someone, people were happy
he had a partner, and when people found out they were lied to, a rift was
created.
We have people like Rita Mosquita,
an absolutely terrible woman that keeps mentioning the blogger Dooce, whom she
knows nothing about that it’s laughable she is looking up to one of the worst
bloggers in blogging history.
Andrew has demonstrated his opinion on
what he did. He doesn’t give a shit that he lied. He did not even address what
he did, nor did he contact Heather to apologize for labelling her with mental
illness and for stealing her pictures. When confronted about the lies, he made
up more lies and this time he claimed he made a mistake because he felt his
blog was boring. I suppose that’s what people do these days when a blog is
boring; they make up lies and try to hurt other people.
Once people had enough of his lies he thought he was smarter
than the rest of us and said, he really did meet a woman on the dating site and
her name was Colleen. The kicker?
Heather’s sister’s name is COLLEEN!
Andrew does not stop with the lies. He
just makes more elaborate ones.
He made us believe he was buying Lori
gifts for Valentine’s day, that she was throwing him birthday parties, and coming
over because she missed him or begging him to go to her place because she was
just going through a hard time. It was all lies. None of it happened. Heather
lives in NY State with her fiancé, and after learning about the lies Andrew
created she asked him to contact her and take her pictures down.
As of today he is yet to take her
pictures off his blog.
This blog is created so people can
express their true opinion without having comments monitored by Andrew, and
without having people like Rita spewing her hatred.
I for one am tired of bloggers lying,
making up stories, hurting other people then crying victim.
Andrew is now crying victim and is
looking to go after Ken, because Ken told the truth about Andrew’s lies. Truth
is, Andrew cannot do anything about Ken. Why? Because people are free to
comment on blogs, and they cannot be imprisoned, they cannot be fined, and Ken
was not threatening Andrew.
I do hope someone sends the details,
true details about what Andrew did to his father. Andrew claimed he told his
father about what happened, and his father basically said Andrew should get
them and give them hell. From what I know of Andre, I am 100% sure Andrew was
not honest with his father and probably minimised the whole story and did not disclose
what he did. If he was honest and his father said that, well, then they are
both in need of some serious psychiatric help.
I have been a long time follower of Jonathon's blog. I quit reading after I found out about the Lori incident. I think what finally did it for me was his lack of self-accountability. He was caught red-handed, but still left the posts and the pictures up. Who does that? Well, someone who does not care about anyone/anything but his ratings.
ReplyDeleteI have seen the white lies, the fibs throughout the years, but I never thought it to be anything harmful. This "Lori" debacle is straight up creepy. I hate that people are blaming this on his "mental illness". Spare me. He fully knows what he has done and does not hold any remorse.
I wish him good luck. He will need it. He is too dependent on his father and Charlie. Charlie cleans his house for goodness sake. I mean, what does he do all day but play video games and sleep? He's a grown man. I've grown tired of his childish antics. If he acted more like a grown man and was honest, posting real things about his life (with up to date photos of himself and his surroundings), then I may be interested. But for now, I am enjoying all of the bloggers in my circle who all lead wonderful, honest lives.
And as for this blog, I am sure it will conjure up more hurt than good. I understand why you did it, but why give this guy more credit than credit is due, even if it is bad?
It looks like he now has another "borrowed" picture for his profile pic. Sad.
ReplyDeleteHe deleted the old blog, created a new blog, reinstated the old blog so now he has 2. I saw the profile pic which he says is him in the comments. And the Lori posts are still up. He's beyond sad, the sad part is he knows exactly what he is doing. Ken
ReplyDeleteSorry I haven't posted before, I've been sick with an ear ache.
ReplyDeleteHe has used that photo before, of course it isn't his and he doesn't care to credit. He isn't writing on the old blog.
What's interesting is that he refers to 'Andrew' in the third person on his facebook too, where he has family members and friends.
I truly believe he is just used to being babied by his father. He's too lazy to volunteer or get a part time job he prefers playing games, lying online, and making up stories. there are no responsibilities.
He doesn't even clean his own house, Charlie does it for him majority of the time!
He's never had to work for anything he has because his father handed him a house and car, they paid for his cigarettes, and he gets disability money for necessities.
Why would he work? Why would he care? He has no need when he's got his father and Charlie babying him, bringing food, doing chores, all he has to do if feed himself.
I have often wondered what will happen when his parents are gone. He posted something yesterday about his father giving him free reign over his money and things. I think that would be a huge mistake. When he got the credit card recently he was ready to charge up a thousand dollars worth of computer parts. Someone asked him today how old Maggie is, at the very least she is 10 or 11, yet he replied 6 or 7.
ReplyDeleteI hope you feel better!
Looks like he posted a happy birthday for Maggie. If you read his archives, he had her back in 2006. I don't see how that adds up to 7 years old?
DeleteDuring the "Lori" gate I did read almost his entire blog, My guess would be Maggie is closer to 10 or 11. I would think his mum would know exactly how old Maggie is, if not her the Vet would. I think all the meds he takes (he's back on benedryl) are screwing with his brain. Klonopin is a nasty drug.
DeleteAndrew has a new "love interest" her name is Laura.
ReplyDeleteNot one comment so far. I've been good and not said a word.
And yes, it's killing me.
I saw. Mum is the word here. But I bet we are thinking the same thing!
DeleteWill there be only one post for this blog?
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